I am embarrassed to say that although I have always known in painting it is important to specify what my focal point was before starting, I did not realize its importance and, even more embarrassing, I did not always do it. It finally dawned on me one day that the importance of the focal point is not just to know what to highlight, it is to know what to leave out!!! If you know what your focal point is before you start your painting or before you make your plans for the day, you will know what to say no to!
I think it is obvious in our work and even more so in our lives when we don't know what our focal point is. It is one reason why we fill our days and our work with so many extraneous things called distractions. In a painting, it will result in so many things being beautiful that the viewer only sees the technical ability of the painter and not the story or purpose of the painting. In other words, it gets us into situations where we have said yes to so many things that we become overwhelmed or our work is overwhelming and the story of our lives is not known.
The abundance of distractions of course leads us to the inability to focus on anything. We go around, our life and our painting, not knowing what to do next. Discontentment is only natural at this point which sets the stage for jealousy and envy. Then of course, doubting sets in which is accompanied by a loss of confidence, insecurity and discouragement. Yuk! This sounds all too familiar and then the pity party starts.
There are a lot of reasons why we let distractions interfere with our life, day and painting. We may be saying yes to distractions in part because of our pride and also that little voice in our head that says "You can do anything you set your mind to." Another reason why we are saying yes to distractions is because we forgot to specify a focal point and then make the choices to leave the rest out. We are not admitting defeat if we say no, we are strengthening our focal point. Imagine going to college for year after year and saying yes to all the distractions there. And worse, going for years and not declaring your major. Declaring your focal point and saying no to distractions actually strengthens the declaration and success!
God gave us the freedom to choose our focal point and then to say no to anything that is distracting us away from that point. Martha forgot to choose her focal point the day Jesus and the disciples came to her house. That led to her saying yes to so many distractions, and then she became discontent, jealous, and had a pity party in front of Christ! But Christ answered her in such a kind and patient way – I love how he said “Martha, Martha” like a sweet, knowing, loving grandfather.
As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!"
"Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "You are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."
Luke 10:38-41
God not only gave us the choice of what the focal point of our lives is, he gave us the choice as to how we live to show our focal point - what we choose to do; do we deny ourselves or do we choose to do things that will glorify Him? Do we choose the things that will last? In other words, we can choose to leave in anything that will compliment and lead us to the Focal Point. We can wake up each morning and say “You are my focal point today - I want to choose the things to do today that will last or glorify You.” It will really put into perspective what to do that day and most importantly what to leave out.
Are you distracted and worried about many things? Maybe it is just a simple thing that you forgot to specify or know what your focal point is. - Sara Beth